The Myth Of Relationship Selling Revealed At Last

The second you quit being the 'best deal' for yourwill have the same needs, the same problems they
customer, he'll drop you like a hot potato. Regardlesswant solved, and the same attitudes about buying. If
of how many lunches you've bought him or birthdaysyou can solve their problems in a cost effective way,
you've remembered.Every business we've everthen getting their business is just a matter of staying in
consulted tells us the same thing about their salesfront of their face long enough to let them know you
force. They say that their industry is different from allhave the answers they need.Don't Manage Cherries,
the others and the only effective way for theirManage Trees!The cherry tree is a useful sales
salespeople to sell is to build buddy-buddy relationshipsanalogy. Like a fruit tree, sales prospects must be
with their prospects and customers. We hear it fromcultivated in a certain way if they are to bear fruit. The
printers, bankers, jewelers, accountants, industrialproblem is that most salespeople spend 80% of their
equipment manufacturers, office equipmenttime managing leads and trying to build
distributors...and every other industry that sells stuff.Therelationships...managing each cherry on the tree. If the
argument usually goes something like this: "You see, inprospect doesn't happen to be 'ripe' at the exact
our industry, people put a lot of thought into this type ofmoment the sales rep makes the call, the prospect is
decision. They just don't go out and buy from whoeverforgotten. Goes rotten. At best, he gets the annoying
has the prettiest advertisements. As a matter of fact,monthly phone call from the salesperson that invariably
we still have many of the same customers from whensays, "You ready to move on those widgets yet?"In
my grandfather owned the business. Now theirthe MYM system, you spend your prospecting efforts
grandsons buy from us. You just can't change theseon the entire tree. You provide the tree with light,
things overnight."Relationship Selling Is A Myth. Like allwater, and nutrients - and it bears fruit. You provide
myths, there are some elements of truth to it. Yes, it'syour entire target market of prospects with
true that your customers should like you. Yes, it's trueinformation, education and knowledge until it becomes
that you can't necessarily influence big buying decisionsself-evident to them that you are the only logical
overnight. But get one thing perfectly clear - yourchoice when it comes to your products or services.By
customers buy from you for one reason: they believethe time the prospect figures out that you are the best
you have "the best deal."Now their definition of what'sdeal, he doesn't really care who YOU are. He only
the best deal may be different from the next person's.cares what you have to offer HIM. When you finally sit
But generally, it has a lot to do with a combination ofdown face-to-face, it will be to discuss details of the
things like convenience, quality, consistency, service,sale - not to 'persuade' him to do anything.
and price. Usually, about 80% of a given target market