My Father's Will

The year was 1981, the state was Florida, and I hadher paycheck in their savings account in the
just flown back from Germany for my father's funeral.expectation of them having that money in their senior
My sister and her family were down from New York,years. The laws of the State of Florida said that she
and, a few days after the funeral, we were sitting withno longer had an unchallenged claim to that house or
my mother in a lawyer's office in downtownmoney.Setting aside just a few minutes to visit a
Pensacola. My mother had just learned that she didn'tlawyer or fill out a legal Will form is simply smart estate
have any say over what happened to the money sheplanning. A Last Will and Testament will guarantee that
and my father had saved over the years, and sheyour family receives the assets of your estate in the
didn't have any control over what happened to themanner you desire when the time comes. Why allow
house they had paid for together. She was at thethe uncertain vagaries of state laws and the decisions
mercy of the State of Florida because my father hadof someone who knows nothing of you or your family
died intestate - without a Last Will &affect your spouse's finances or your children's
Testament.Fortunately, she and my father had raisedfinances after you die?Creating a legal Last Will and
their children well. All that was required was for myTestament document allows you, the maker of the
sister and me to sign a paper relinquishing our claims toWill, to specify exactly who is to receive the assets of
any part of the estate. Had we not signed, however,your estate. Creating a Will shortens any legal
the estate, including the house, all the money in savings,processes exponentially, as the only major question
and the $40,000.00 in Certificates of Deposit wouldremaining before the distribution of assets is the
have been divided among the three of us. That wasauthenticity of the Will, which can easily be proven by
the law, and that was the result of my father notthe signature of the Notary. Creating a Will removes
having a will.My sister and I did not hesitate for annearly all questions about the distribution of the assets
instant. We signed without any problem, but how manyof an estate and speeds the transfer of those assets
families could say that all the possible heirs would beto the designated survivors.Even though the obvious
so compliant and agreeable? Even worse, each statevalue of having a will may fall victim to a person's
has its own way of dealing with the distribution ofuncertainty about choosing a lawyer, or the costs
assets to the heirs of someone who dies without aassociated with hiring an attorney, there are many
last will and testament.There are a lot of optionsother options available today. Many office supply
available in addition to the commonplace will forstores have forms for a Last Will and Testament, and
protecting the distribution of assets upon someone'sthere are many sites on the internet where you can
death, including such things as living trusts, but the Lastfind forms, software, or services which will help you
Will & Testament still ranks as one of the simplest andprepare a perfectly legal Will for a fraction of what an
best ways of insuring that your heirs will get what youattorney would charge. You can even write your own
want them to get without the intervention of courtswill if you wish, but be aware that it is easy to say the
and lawyers. Taking that for a fact, a Last Will &wrong thing if you are not aware of the requirements
Testament is one of the most important legalof the law, and a good form or software program will
documents a person can create during his or herhelp protect you against most simple errors. Of course,
lifetime: it is the document that determines whosomeone with a large estate, or someone with a
receives the assets of that person upon his or hercomplicated distribution problem should contact an
death.The laws of most states are designed toattorney rather than attempting to prepare a Last Will
provide the assets of an estate first to the survivingand Testament themselves.The author is retired from
spouse and then to any children of that person if thethe Army after 21 years of service. He has worked
spouse is no longer living, but this hierarchy ofas an accountant, purchasing agent, optical lab
distribution is not always guaranteed. Indeed, in ourmanager, restaurant manager, instructor and long-haul,
case, all three of us, my mother, my sister, and I wereover-the-road truck driver. He has been a member of
considered to be equal in our claims upon the estate.Mensa for several years, and has written and
When you think about it, my mother and father hadpublished poetry, essays, and articles on various
paid for the house without any help from us, and forsubjects for the last 40 years. He has been an active
most of the years she had worked as a grade schoolinternet marketer since 2000, and now makes his living
teacher, my mother had willingly put every penny ofonline.